The roller coaster of life is tremendously adventurous. It brings out both the best and the worst. We live in the world full of certain or uncertain situations, which could bring overhaul to our life. Standing tall and confident is the only solution to ease the flow. We are all Different, to be precise We are Unique. We have our own identity, a unique thought process, a different perspective towards a person/situation. That’s exactly how we have been functional since birth. Though the reactions start to get surface at later stages, still the nature was constructed in the womb itself. That’s what the theory of DMIA- Dermatoglyphics Multiple Intelligences Analysis suggests.
What seems enjoyable to one could be the most burdensome task to the other one. Ever once, in certain situations, the confused thoughts or the dilemmas might have gulped you. No Road must have been visible to you, to choose from. What do you consider it as? What should be done at such times. Some of us will say it happens, some would suggest to voice out and some would say IGNORE. No one would ask you to CONFRONT it, none of us would be interested to EMBRACE it. Why we are so much into going along with the ongoing tradition? If I don’t like a particular thing or something done in a certain way, then why shouldn’t I raise my voice?
This recalls me a story during one of my group Counselling Session:
The session attendee used to be unsure about all the actions, doings and doubts own self. Even talking to a friend, used to puts the person in thoughts, if the right things has been done or not? Further on being asked, the attendee told that the nature of telling the things clearly in front of people, inability to modify the statements is what are considered as the biggest weaknesses.
But why is it so? Why is this a weakness? I, CA (Dr) Rajeev Gupta, the founder of Whomi, and as a life skills coach would like to inform you that this is not your weakness nor you need to worry about such nature. This is how we all have been made. The actions of ours depend on our Nature. How we feel, in what ways we react to it, all depends on our NATURE. To know all of that, DMIA is the solution, that tells you about your inner self.
As a counsellor, I have been known to many of the stories, aware of numerous ups & downs. I have obviously proffered the suggestive measures to all who have come to me for the counseling. On being a trip down the memory lane, I’ve deduced my experiences. I have actually learnt a lot about individuals. While helping the individuals to learn about their inner-self, my knowledge basket kept on filling. Reminisce that Each Creation is Unique; so are the way to handle situations. Treat these sort of confusions as a knick-knack to the Life. Decorate them to add to the learning pages, without allowing them to get settled in depths.
Reaction is not the problem ever. At least you are capable enough to express what you feel. Not reacting is the Bigger One. Wholesome, wisdom is all that is required from your end to make the life a better one.
“NO Reaction or KNOW Your Reaction –The choice is Yours.”
Hence, if you wish to KNOW Your Reaction’s reasons connect with us at Whomi and Talk to CA Dr Rajeev Gupta.
Never fear opposition : A kite rises the highest against the wind not with it.
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