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Writer's pictureDr Rajeev Gupta

How to deal with the failures in the life

Updated: Oct 12, 2022


That’s a fact that if you intend to climb up to the top of the mountain, you have to bend down. You may tumble thousand times. However reaching there successfully suppresses the pain of all the hardships. Doesn’t matter how many times you fall, what matters is how you put yourself together and stood up again strongly. Similarly, in our life we have to


face the situations even sometimes failures too, so that we can attain the solution.


My eyes went through a quote somewhere, which read as:


“My life has been nothing but a failure”


I was numb. Wondered, how casually many of us also utter these words without even realizing the literal meaning of it. How can one say that life is a failure? What about all those accomplishments that called for celebration with your family and friends. Once a failure is actually enough to Tag your life as a complete failure?


What is Failure?


What do you think is a failure? For a student: Not able to crack an exam, for a child: not getting the toy he saw in the market, for an employee: not achieving the target, for a couple: Not getting a happy relationship & so on. If so, then the responsibility of the Sun is to Rise & Shine. What if it’s not visible on a cloudy day? Will you say that the Sun Failed? Absolutely, not. It’s just a matter of situation, just the same as of our lives. So, when the failures are different then the perspective towards them should also be different.

I, CA Dr Rajeev Gupta as your mentor, your life skills, transformational and motivational coach, understands that at times, we feel like giving up. It’s ok to lose but it’s not at all ok to lose your confidence; your cheerfulness. Never claim yourself to be a failure, just sum up all your happy times to recall everything that motivates you to Rise & Shine again.



Let’s deal with it…


See, Success is never permanent & the Failure is never fatal. Always remember that we learn, when we fail. Hence, we change when we learn. Failures are disheartening, they never give us any happiness and that’s true. In spite of that, we should take them along. Yes, you read it right! Not the baggage of take along the learning; the experience you got from it. Be an Optimist, see good in every situation. Success & Failure are two sides of the same coin. One would surely come your way. You need to embrace both, one will give you sense of accomplishment, happiness & motivation to be better. The other will give you pain with an experience for the entire lifetime. The result of your efforts, will take it to your way. You have no option of choosing either of them.


Just Radiate wisely !!!

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