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Writer's pictureDr Rajeev Gupta

Let’s find What stops you to grow?

Updated: Feb 25, 2023




The world engrossed with immense competition, hatred and enviousness it seems impossible to grow without any human made hurdles. Yes, you read that absolutely right. You must be wondering what’s this “Human Made Hurdles”? The term may sound to be usual but it’s 10X deeper folds underneath. Always remember:


“You are not a kite & No string can stop a Bird.”


There are many things and norms around that tangles us to enroute ahead towards bigger accomplishments. I am not here saying that the rules are made to hold you back. But deep down somewhere, rules limit us, our efforts and even our thoughts. To understand it, let’s walk through a story based on a scientific study:


A scientist put 5 monkeys in a basement. The place had a wooden ladder with few bananas at the top. The ladder was to reach the mezzanine with a door to go out. The monkeys didn’t know all this. A curious monkey tried to step up the ladder. The moment he tried to go up, the scientists poured the cold water on all other monkeys. Sensing the fear of getting wet with cold water, the monkeys now started beating the one who tried to climb the ladder. This happened every time any monkey climbed up the ladder. Now scientists replaced the monkey with a new one. He tried to climb and got badly beaten by the monkeys, already existing there. Note that the water has not been poured over them anymore. Scientists replace all the monkeys one by one. The new monkeys, also have adapted the same habit of beating the one climbing up, without knowing the actual reason. Earlier they were beating the monkey due to the punishment of water. Now the replaced monkeys are beating because they saw this as the pattern.


“We Limit our calibre because of limited knowledge.”


Likewise, what we learn in colleges is actually different from what you will see or find in the world. The modern world is actually still equipped with pitty old thoughts. In the world full of fortuities, people keep clinging to the old traditions patterned by some unknown one. It keeps us under the sway of supressing our capabilities, and takes us away from accomplishments. The modern era has given immense chances to get opulence. An individual fails because of these Human Made Hurdles only. In the presence of resources, we get remorse, rejection, dejection. Why because we have been given with wing, but we give up on them. Our inner-self, is afraid of the flight because we are unaware of our strengths. Always be cognizant of your abilities. Know that an ability/skill is doesn’t exist to be suppressed, it’s made to impress.


“Be Ignorant; Be Itinerant.”


We humans ourself create the problems and we only have the power to solve them. Sometimes being ignorant is the best way to get out of the thoughts and enter into the Oracle of greater coups by learning manoeuvres. Talk to me, Rajeev Gupta, your life architect, to create a Paragon with the mutual efforts of Human efforts and Technology.

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