A human being is full of imperfections, searching for the Perfections around. During the voyage of accomplishments, we often land up to the situations, where hesitation overpowers our confidence and shook the entire personality.
Why do humans hesitate?
Fear of taking the wrong decision is one of the biggest reason that an individual hesitates, at times he is given a choice. The fear of failure or even the consequences of success/failure diverts our mind leaving us unable to reach to a conclusion. We are more worried about what other people will think. Remember, Perfectionism is always getting yourself in your way.
An individual’s biggest fear
Human beings are afraid ofAttachment. Yes, other than the fear of height, water, darkness, failure, rejection;Attachment is something we are scared of. We believe that every attachment we have, will either break our heart or leave us as a failure. We feel scared to get attached to someone. Attachment could be to anything, be it an individual or anythingthat we want to be around us. We feel insecure because we believe that we might lose the person or the thing. This could even be the result of a bad experience we had in the past. May be someone who we thought is ours and will be with us forever has left in the middle of the life. Your life experiences might have taught you to stay alone and detached to avoid any misery and pain. Make Self-love your biggest priority & be self-aware. Know your traits, your talents, your strengths & weaknesses to emerge as a strong individual who can take the decisions confidently.
“See a Mistake as a lesson.”
Why does it happen?
Now that's what happen to every other human being today. Yes, I mentioned that because any human being is not bound to be loyal, it's a choice obviously. We are so busy in lives & looking for options to improvise the current situation, we unknowingly start to settle for the conveniences in disguise. This comes at the cost of a human's feelings.
End Results of Hesitation
More often than not, hesitation could be linked to the negative outcomes, since the feeling itself is completely associated with fear, lack of confidence or overthinking as the end result.
Remedial actions
Instead of thinking & comprehending: Communicate. Show how you wish the things to be done that could bring you the state of metal peace, hence well-being in all the terms. “Communicate -> Revert -> Realize -> Relieve” is the mantra for that.
“Say what you Think, Express how you Feel.”
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